I’ve been thinking about how cool it is to not care. What inspired this idea? A plain yet physically attractive girl at work, who is also the most careless girl I’ve met. She always stands with one leg behind the other. From my perspective, she does the bare minimum at work and waits for the end of the workday. When she walks past people in a tight space she squeezes her arms together in front of her which forces her boobs up and she giggles out a “sorry…” She hardly talks to other employees either. She has seen me when I was getting filling out my application. She glanced at me once and when she caught my eyes she quickly looked away and her hair covered her face like curtains at the end of a show. Why should she care about me? Isn’t she curious about who I am? Maybe I’m the greatest person she could ever meet. She is really hot, girly and young and every male at work wants to fuck her, and the short Mexicans who can’t seduce her in English want to fuck her twice. Sometimes she looks out the window out of boredom. She doesn’t like to work, but doesn’t display a big attitude about that. Her life is probably ok to her and happy at times. There are probably times when she is sad, but overall she seems to feels content. It’s as if whatever happens will just not threaten who she is, or her beauty and sex appeal. I’m sure she is aware that all men drool over her, and that her sex appeal can get her much of what she wants. A career, a promotion, a wealthy husband, friends and everything else beauties can get. Surprisingly, she is not showy, and appears very modest with her actions.
Her lack of effort to initiate or carry on conversations besides gossip with her tight circle of friends makes her seem exclusive and cold. But I severely admire how cool she is. She exemplifies the women’s role in shaping evolution. Every guy wants her and she knows it. She doesn’t need to do anything to get a guy—she could be fucking at any moment of the day. All she has to do is let the guys know or not resist. But, she’s got the final say because she owns her pussy, and chooses who to let in, and that’s the bottom line. And evolution has made it so the numerous males present themselves and the woman chooses only one who she feels is best suited. This girl doesn’t need to care about others, because she is probably overwhelmed by how much and, or how many people care about her from the moment they lay eyes on her. (About ½ the world.) I think one knows when one is beautiful and young. Basically, she doesn’t have to try, because even if she doesn’t try, she will still get a lot of what she wants, and that eliminates worry from her life. People who have no worries are cool.
The more you care about something the more that something has the potential to frustrate you and give you problems. In order to be affected by something you need to first care for it. Nobody is affected by people they do not know, but many are affected by people they love or who love them. If nobody cares about you and you want to have a healthy social life, then you start caring about other people. But the vice versa is true. So a healthy social life should result in you caring less about people in general. You’re scope of the people to care about will shrink. You will become more selective about who you care about, because there are only a set number of caring hours in a day.
Not caring is a sign that you are above your problem. Say you are in an argument about some political or social issue and your opponent is trying to convince you that he is right. If you give up by implying that you don’t care, that conveys that you are so important that you are above this argument, and your unwillingness to care shows how calm you are within the situation and about the issue. It shows that this issue is not a problem for you, yet is a problem for your opponent because obviously he is loosing more sleep over it than you. And it’s not sexy to be very tired. Just tired enough to not care. Furthermore, it now has become a bigger problem for him to make you care about the issue he cares about so that he can convince you his viewpoint is right. People who are careless are sexier, cooler, and calmer than people who care. They do not care enough to get into heated arguments turned into fighting, and so they cannot bother anyone who cares. Caring is always found alongside a problem, but carelessness is not associated with problems. If nobody cared, there wouldn’t be any problems and wars. People care when they feel threatened or some aspect of themselves is in jeopardy. When you are happy you don’t care about being happy. You are just participating in the moment not knowing that you are happy. The only way you can care about happiness is if you are insecure about it, or don’t feel happy.
If you care more about someone than they care about you, they stop caring and they aren’t attracted to you as much.
Girls are attracted to celebrities and important individuals in part because those individuals don’t care about them to begin with and the girls have to work hard to get them to realize how special they really are. Whoever cares less is more important to the caring people, and most people are caring. Because it’s the carer’s job to care about the careless people. Politicians pretend to care, and that artificial sincerity is even worse than caring in terms of being cool and sexy. Caring people care both about careless people and caring people.
Look at fashion and advertisements, especially ads that are for clothing. The models are often not smiling, emotionless. They may be lit in dramatic lighting and emotional lighting, wear clothes in a way that conveys a certain emotion, but the individuals themselves are emotionless, especially on runways; like physical objects. Sunglasses are always in style. They cover up the eyes, windows to the inside of a person. With sunglasses you are only limited to emotions and facial expressions that can be conveyed by the movements of the mouth. But we all know that a sincere smile is dependent on the eyes. Models look so cool on ads because they make the viewer desire their situation, and the viewer becomes envious of them. There is a certain air of disinterestedness that models often convey.
Sexy girls walk the streets, they don’t even turn their heads, sometimes you see them miss very beautiful interesting things. Its sexy to be on a mission, have a destination or a goal to reach and be absolutely focused on that goal without getting distractions. Clarity and confidence.
Engaging in activities that show you’re caring is not cool. The more controversial the subject is the less cool it is to talk about. The least coolest things to talk about are politics, and then even worse is religion (although it could be argued that both are equally un-cool topics). If you talk about the weather the majority of people will agree to what you say, and it’s a neutral topic. But you can really go wrong with saying that McCain is nice, or that the trickle up theory sure is great!
This is why I don’t understand why people, especially younger people are so proud to show everyone that they voted. I mean there are plenty other things you could do while you’re young. Rock, fuck, laugh, and if you don’t have a sense of humor, then drink and dance. But please don’t smugly tell me you voted today.